Lets Talk About "SEX"

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Question 1...

How important is SEX in a relationship?

To be fucking honest I think there is nothing more important than sex in a relationship... Azin that's practically everything, although there are some other needs which has to be there, but sex is the utmost 😏😏.
To some people a relationship is the legitimate way to legalize sex... like without the relationship there can't be sex🙄.

Some people, included me😏😏 say this "If you don't get sex in a relationship you will get it outside, likewise the saying If you don't eat at home you would eat roadside food". There are some relationship that sex is not important, they are all those kindergarten relationship and the rest, but trust me if it has to do with marriage is so fucking important.

Question 2...

Can a man be really satisfied with one sexual partner?

I dont know why I put "man" there instead of "woman" but am a man so i guess i did the maths🤗.
But to be very honest this is a hard question for me... like seriously, i don't even know the correct answer like i have not practically been in that shoe, yes i mean it am so fucking holy forget the outside me inside me issa saint but based on reports and analysis I think more men are not satisfied. Am on the fewer men who are satisfied trust me 😉 and am single 😂, but seriously that's what reports says.
Like I asked one of my friend a very consistent person on my blog, he said that it has been from Adam and that's how we were made... i was shocked but i reasoned the stuff and he was hella right😏. Although he said when the man is married yes one partner is ideal but if not married then he can experiment 😂😂 funny word right "EXPERIMENT".

Question 3...

Can a man choose to be with one sexual partner?

So fucking YES, azin in capital letters gan, just that sometimes things doesn't go so well afterall.

So you my blog readers tell me, "Is sex important in a relationship?"
"Can it be done in the bf and gf phrase or it should be till after marriage?"
"Can YOU be satisfied with one sexual partner."

Comments

  1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.8 January 2018 at 07:37

    Thanks 🙂

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  2. lamide8 January 2018 at 07:52

    I don't belive that sex is required in bf and gf relationship,I strongly believe that sex should occur after marrige😊..I think women should have the pride of saying they are virgins to their husbands..but if I look at it from a man's perspective well hell Yeah I would love to have sex before the marrige.no woman wants an inexperienced husband 😑..any Yeah a man should have only one sexual partner either in a marriage or bf nd gf relationship ur partner should be able to satisfy your needs nd if she/he doesn't then you tell him/her what you want❤

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.8 January 2018 at 12:52

      You talk about inexperienced like it's only the man that has to learn... unfortunately it's both sides, so it no one wants an inexperienced husband nor wife.
      I'm strongly witg you on the sexual partner own idea, because that's the best.

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  3. lamide8 January 2018 at 07:53

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  5. Anonymous8 January 2018 at 12:31

    I agree with lamide we should state what we are interested in a relationship. That doesn't mean we should pressure our partners into making a decision they don't want. Maybe it's because I'm a lady but I don't feel relationship is for sex it should be for companionship n if after a while in the relationship u both agree on getting intimate with each other good for but if a lady doesn't want sex u guys can part ways. God knows me I can't compromise if I don't want sex it's better for the relationship to end I can't beg a guy to stay with me the guy that will be patient enough will stay it's as simple as that. But I don't believe sex is all that matters in relationships

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.8 January 2018 at 19:55

      Well, I don't disagree with your point everyone has their different views, beliefs, opinion etc. If your partner ask for what you can't give him it's better to end it than to continue.

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  6. Lola8 January 2018 at 13:51

    Sex before marriage to me is totally unacceptable. This isn't just based on religious beliefs or morals. You say that sex is very important in a relationship. Well I beg to defer. Whether it's the relationship between teens or the ones with the adults.it should not be a priority.
    I believe you say that because of the era we are in. But being celibate doesn't mean you don't have urges. You just have to overcome.. Both parties. And when marriage eventually comes to play.. Why not learn together? ��

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  7. Anonymous8 January 2018 at 14:54

    Sex before marriage is so very wrong to begin with, people don't really like to hear this a lot but I'll say it anyway, it's written in the bible that sex before marriage is wrong so why ignore it. The saying that if you don't give them sex they'll get it outside the relationship is permitted as long as I don't know(speaking of myself now), not like they're married already or even going to get married at the end of the day. After marriage I don't see why a man shouldn't be having just one sex partner if really their commitment was based on trust and love. You may disagree, that I do not care of but this is my own point of view

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  8. Mary-jane Uchechi8 January 2018 at 17:21

    Sex should be after marriage. Guys learn to abstain. Like, I don't get it, u guys go about having sex and at the end of the day u want to settle down with a virgin.�� Am just saying��

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.8 January 2018 at 20:09

      This Virgin talk is vice-versa, Some men abstain till marriage and find out that their wife isn't but have to live with it because of the "For better For worst" vow, while vice-versa with women and this is a reason why having sex before marriage is rampant. We would still talk about "Getting laid before marriage" in a topic.
      But thanks for your Opinion anyway 🤗🤗

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  9. Anonymous8 January 2018 at 17:34

    Sex should be after marriage based on my religious views based on my view sex before marriage is a sin,but in some homes culturally they want the woman to give birth for their son,to signify if she is fertile or not,based on the fact that that is their tradition,if you can't give birth they will throw you out,based on my belief premarital sex is a sin,but nowadays its abstinence is rare even me that am talking its difficult for me,well it depends on the relationship sha

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  10. Anonymous8 January 2018 at 19:36

    Sex after marriage
    In support ✌

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  11. Anonymous9 January 2018 at 00:13

    I think sex should be important after marriage because its like a bond between the man and a woman ...but nowadays guys and girls see it as the number one thing in a relationship

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.9 January 2018 at 11:47

      Not every boy and girl sees it as a number one thing in their relationship, there are still a few out there who are like me 😜😜

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  12. Nwuli Albert Alfred.9 January 2018 at 11:43

    😂 😂

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  13. Bella9 January 2018 at 15:19

    Based on cultural and religious belief sex b4 marriage is a sin..... Bt how will u feel if u get married and both u and ur wife re inexperienced on how to do it?? M nt saying u should goan ave sex with every asshole u see, to me sex is needed in a relationship Becos it is like a way of bonding with ur patner...
    1 sexual patner is enough fr u ooh

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.9 January 2018 at 15:47

      Yeah, I feel your point, and I think that's what most youth these days think. If am included that's classified 😉😉😂

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  14. Anonymous10 January 2018 at 12:57

    Ehn ehn ...
    Sex is one important factor in a "committed relationship"
    Why??
    Sex burns calories
    Sex reduces menstrual cramps
    Sex even makes one younger sef������ and so on..
    Remember I said committed oh ..

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    1. Nwuli Albert Alfred.11 January 2018 at 00:47

      Yes I remember 😂😂... Thank you Well said.

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    2. Unknown3 March 2018 at 08:25

      Sex is really important in a relationship I can't just be making out with my gal without having sex
      When no be say I dey craze

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    3. Nwuli Albert Alfred.3 March 2018 at 09:12

      😂 😂 😂

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